Like I also mentioned earlier, she only intended to show her breast, and the whole episode must have been exciting, taboo, etc that he convinced her to masturbate for him and she got him to do the same for her. As a couple, we had never done anything like this, so it bothers me that she did it all for him.
My ily were that important to me
So sorry decimated, you sound like the perfect h, I don’t understand why some women just aren’t satisfied, when they have everything right in front of them. Sorry you went through this. It is no big surprise that the om left her. He wasn’t about to leave his wife, his family.
I like to tell my h, how I want to help people, who have been through all the ups and downs of their life like I have, help them through trauma and loss etc
I hope you find your happy ending soon, look after yourself, you know you did all you could to save your marriage.
I have always thought about others feelings, I too raised treat others how you would expect to be treated. Now I will say I am a bit more hard hearted.
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