Tabbitha, 29, said she spent around eight months on and off with a guy when she was 22 years old

Tabbitha, 29, said she spent around eight months on and off with a guy when she was 22 years old

Listen to Your Gut

Although they were originally exclusive, they broke up when Tabbitha discovered he’d been texting somebody else. They later decided to get back together and give things another shot, since she wanted to at least give him the benefit of the doubt, only for him to become “flirty and touchy” with another girl during Tabbitha’s birthday party, in front of their friends. Needless to say, that was where she drew the line. “Listen to your gut, it’s right 99 percent of the time. Don’t settle,” she said. “Do your own thing, invest in yourself and as cliche as it sounds, you’ll find love when you least expect it.”

Although her experience wasn’t quite as drastic, Charlotte, 24, also learned the importance of listening to where you are in your life and factoring in timing in order to make a relationship work. She fell in love with her girlfriend during college, but struggled to stay on the same page when she moved across the country and they resorted to long-distance. “So eventually we were on and off and tried about three or four times to make [our relationship] work, but it always felt like we were off-I would be more keen to try at one point and then she’d be more keen to try at another point,” she explained. “I think we kind of became each other’s safety blanket.”

Instead of staying for the sake of what the relationship once was or could be, if you feel deep inside that things aren’t headed in a direction that works for you, it’s https://worldbrides.org/sv/latamdate-recension/ probably best to move on.

Stand Up For Yourself

Similar to Charlotte’s story, Izzy, 23, said she kept going back to her S.O.

Read moreTabbitha, 29, said she spent around eight months on and off with a guy when she was 22 years old